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tigerlilly_123 • 12 April 2011 at 2:59 AM

@ijilleh it is always good to keep your hopes up even if she was in 3rd grade it was still love, and 'm in the same position as thepells4 but I will never give up on Scott and i'm sure she will never give up on Carlos(fyi i'm not trying to be rude just saying that we can always dream)

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trish • 12 April 2011 at 3:07 AM

@smartie2742- I wouldn't know ANYTHING. I'd observe them (sounds weird but bot really xD) but I hve NO IDEA how to be around them if I was dating one! It would be nice to have someone around you for comfot, but it's not like that in middle school. Especially if last year you were still in elementary school. xD

@thepells4- I heard that phrase too if your shy and don't wanna say i like you cauz he/she might not like you back thingie, I saw it on iCarly. Lolz It's iOMG.

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thepells4 • 12 April 2011 at 6:12 AM

@Trish That's where I got the phrase too. O_O

@Ijilleh *sigh* Yes. But there are lots of reasons why I can't move on. There's something inside that tells me to just wait a little longer. :/ That "shaped into people" thing makes sense, but my bff has seen Carlos and told me about it, she said he seems more like a boy but still sweet.

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qwaszx • 12 April 2011 at 10:32 AM

*sigh* I have a crush on a boy named Kobe. In first grade all the other girls liked him too. Once at recess I caught a group of girly-girls (not me) saying to each other Kobe likes you then the girl who was spoken to would pretend to faint into the others arms. I was heartbroken after I found the boy with another girl. (I was in FIRST GRADE. I'm in 5th now so I have had a MAJOR crush on him.) He said He-he-he said he liked her!!!!!☹️ </3 I was so sad. But I couldn't get myself to stop liking him. Like once in 4th grade I was arguing with a SUPER annoying kid and he came up and said what's the matter? I was so nervous I turned away and said nothing. And sometime after that my friend (not anymore) spilled my secret! I still hate her for the time when he came up to me and said I know you like me. I turned bright pink. Then I moved away and I had small crushes on other boys but I always and still do have a special place in my heart for Kobe.

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isis • 12 April 2011 at 11:03 AM

@qwaszx Aww that's sad...☹️

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qwaszx • 12 April 2011 at 11:09 AM

@isis *sniff*

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smartie2742 • 12 April 2011 at 1:43 PM

@trish Well, I'd say just don't worry about it. Enjoy being a middle schooler. Enjoy your teenagehood. Pretty much what I told rabbitwanter- you can worry about getting boyfriends, whatever when you enter the horrors of adulthood. Heck, mature boyfriends and freedom is really the only good thing about being an adult. Then again, I live with my mom and still have curfew. >.>

Speaking of my psycho mom... I'm 22. She's ok with my boyfriend coming over when she's not home. With us being ALONE in a house when she's gone for hours. But if, for some reason, I ever had to stay the night at his house (or vice versa)- even if we slept in different rooms with parents home- she would NEVER allow it. Does that make any sense? O.o

Anyways... @thepells4 There's a cliche saying that is my advice on your situation. "If you love someone, let them go. If they return, they were always yours. If they don't, they were never yours."

@qwaszx What isis said. ☹️

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rabbitwanter • 12 April 2011 at 4:13 PM

I kinda liek this guy named Andrew, but somebody sayd he lieks this girl named Taylor [u no teh prissy popular girls, rite? she 1 of them]. I used 2 b Taylor's bff last year 4 some reason. But im not shur he rly lieks her, cuz teh guy who told meh culd b lying cuz he lieks meh and probably duzznt want meh 2 go out with any1 else... O.O dats wat mai friend sayd (dat he probably just duzznt want meh 2 go out with any1 else). So Andrew ish halarious and watnot 😸 i cant help lieking him... ^////^
im friends with 1 of his friends, shud i ask him who he lieks? Liek just lie and say its mai friend? xD

yeah once sombody else asked him who he lieks and he sayd "not telling"., then she asked if he lieks ME and he sayd "not telling", Usually he speaks his mind out, so he wuld of sayd no if he didnt...rite? D:

IM SO CONFUZZLED >.<

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@tigerlilly_123 It's no problem. ^^ I wouldn't have taken it badly anyways.

And as for the dreaming thing ( @thepells4 this goes for you too), I'm not saying don't dream sometimes at least, just move on. Does that make sense?

@smartie2742 said pretty much what I'm trying to say. xD

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I used to not want a boyfriend..but now look at me XD

Happy five month anniversary Jacob! ❤️

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smartie2742 • 12 April 2011 at 9:15 PM

@dawnfur How funny! My five month anniversary is coming up on April 22nd. And I used to not want a boyfriend either... xD

@rabbitwanter It sounds like, if you straight up asked him if he liked you, he'd probably say no (even if he really does like you). If he's too shy to admit to friends that he likes you... I doubt he'd tell you he does. Although it doesn't hurt to ask- see how he reacts and what not. Then again, it could end up making things awkward. So... I don't know what advice to give you on this one. lol.

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thepells4 • 12 April 2011 at 9:27 PM

*sigh* I don't think ANYONE understands. As a matter of fact, I only think 1 person understands-my bff. Who liked Carlos too. And was okay with him liking me. Carlos has a special place in my heart. A little bit like when someone in your family dies. You can't bare the pain, and when you try to move on, your heart begins to shatter, so you think about the person all over again. And in this case, Carlos is the dead family member (but not really). I'm not gonna let go of him, even if he likes another girl now, which he probably doesn't, cuz my friend said all the kids in his new town are jerks, I'm not gonna let go. I don't want to face defeat, after all of this waiting. But, if I ever do change my mind, and I hate to admit this, but there's another boy at my school that I have my eye on... Maybe. But choosing him would be a sign of defeat. So I refuse. The more I refuse, the stronger I get. I NEED to see Carlos's face again. And it'll happen.

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trish • 12 April 2011 at 9:45 PM

@thepells4- It's okay! Ask your friend for his last name and go stalk him! xD Gee, today, this girl came up to me and said,"Wesley wants to give you this!" And she hands me this penguin knit hat that matches his. I was seriously confused. O. o But the hat was so cute!

It looks like this: http://www.etsy.com/listing/38749148/penguin-knit-hat

I LOVE the hat! It's adorable and very sweet of him to give me one. I guess he caught me eyeing the hat the other day. xD

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@thepells4 I don't know what to tell you, besides I do understand that you feel like giving up would be a sign of defeat. :/ But aren't you a little young to be dating anyways? I mean, I know a lot of people date in Elementary school now, but ... Yeah. Maybe try not to think about it until you're older?


And before you go all psycho on me for saying that, I'm in 7th grade and still think it's too early for me. xD


Feel free to tell me to shut the h*ll up at any time. 😸

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whitefall • 12 April 2011 at 10:43 PM

The new fad is basically to date people who you don't even like. A bunch of people do it. A bunch of "popular" people is my school are dating because their in the same part of the the social hierarchy. XD

This topic has absolutely no boys in it. 😃 The love part repells them. kinda like mosquito repellent. 😉

Deleted • 12 April 2011 at 11:10 PM

@whitefall I. HATE. THAT. SO. MUCH. It's SO STUPID. I'll be honest, I don't believe in love before 16. :/ xD

I've got very strict rules in my head about dating. xD

And usually it's no girls are on the Internet. Now it's no guys on the Internet. xD -Lame joke-

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whitefall • 12 April 2011 at 11:14 PM

I wouldn't date at all. XD Unless someone I liked asked me out. Chances of that? 1/1000 😉 Oh well, I really don't care if the person I like doesn't like me. >.>

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tigerlilly_123 • 12 April 2011 at 11:34 PM

@ijelleh yeah I know what u mean but I am almost 16 anyways XD but yeah I hate it when people in like 3rd grade r dating and u aren't it is so stupid
Ah well just putting it out there even though no one wants 2 reply to ANY of my posts(except thepells4 of course) XD

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smartie2742 • 13 April 2011 at 12:38 AM

I'm 22. Back in my elementary school days, we still thought boys had cooties! xD I still think they have cooties, actually. I've just learned to accept them for it! 😊

I don't know how many times I've said it but... It is best to wait until you're older for dating and stuffs. If you like someone then cool. Want to ask them out? Go ahead. But I wouldn't worry about the whole hype of dating until adulthood when people are (usually) more mature and more capable of handling the joys and complications of a relationship. That's something that will send me to the anger room- when you young folk start complaining about how you're only fifteen years old and haven't kissed anyone. =P I think I'm getting off topic now though. lol.

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stellalunagirl • 13 April 2011 at 12:56 AM

I have NEVER been asked out before.. idk if thats AWESOME or sad... but idk what you even DO when you and a guy are going out! XD

*fails at life*

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smilies • 13 April 2011 at 1:41 AM

@stellalunagirl Not really, I mean, you are my age! 😋 "NORMAL" people don't have boyfriends at our age 😋 I haven't been asked out... Well... This guy asked me out to a school dance in yr 8 but I was SO EMBARRASSED because he wasn't my type exactly >_<
What is up with these grades, they are SO CONFUSING?!?!!?!?!?? D:

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tigerlilly_123 • 13 April 2011 at 1:57 AM

@stellalunagirl and @smiles I was asked out 2 times both were just pranks XD. One this year and one in middle school(8th grade) he asked me out and I had a crush on him but it turned out he had just been zapped and broke up with me soon after(luckily I was prepared and already knew wat had happened, but it was still sad)
@smartie2742 I agree with u but also disagree XD
I agree because guys r so immature and better 2 have a relationship later
Although I also disagree because if u went out with a guy in let's say 3rd grade it's not like anything would happen but then u would have some experience and might make it easier for u later on (idk i'ts just a hypothesis lol)
Good Night...er morning for some 😃

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@tigerlilly_123 @Stellalunagirl @smilies I only got asked out once this year on a Zap. I said no, because the guy was ... A typical 13-year-old. And I dislike that. xD

@smartie2742 I completely agree. The only three boys I've ever kissed are my dad and two brothers. xD

@whitefall I'm like that too, but I don't like anyone. xD If free dinner is involved, however ... >D

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smartie2742 • 13 April 2011 at 11:40 AM

@smilies Grades are years in School. You got 1-5 grades which is elementary school. (about ages 6-11) then grades 6-8 is middle school. (ages 11-14) then high school is grades 9-12. (ages 14-18) and then you either go to college or work at mcdonalds for the rest of your life! xD

@tigerlilly_123 ah, so you guys don't kiss or whatever in elementary school? Okay- I feel better knowing that. lol

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whitefall • 13 April 2011 at 1:16 PM

Now, people who are dating don't actually go on dates. They just ask someone out the gain the status. 😈 //middle school and younger~!

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rabbitwanter • 13 April 2011 at 3:13 PM

@whitefall
lolol ikr xDD

@smartie2742
wat if he tells every1 😱 and stoopid popular girls will maek fun of meh, plus he mite not even liek meh in teh first place... e3e D: eh, o well

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miomar • 13 April 2011 at 3:28 PM

Boyz attack😋!

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whitefall • 13 April 2011 at 3:35 PM

Oh noes! *slapslapslap* I think we're good.

Oops, I killed him. xD

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rabbitwanter • 13 April 2011 at 3:44 PM

@miomar

ROFL xDDDD

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miomar • 13 April 2011 at 3:47 PM

*starts to iritate you with boy stuff*

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